This is sacred work.
The breakdown of the Separate Self is not a failure. It is an initiation. When the outer forms dissolve, the inner truth reveals itself. You are not your story. You are the space in which the story unfolds.
If you are ready to remember who you are beyond survival, identity, and expectation — I’m here to walk with you, gently, reverently, and powerfully. Let’s walk this path together—of re-membering, of returning, of radiating.
MEET SEKAI
Founder
A Journey from Collapse to Wholeness
Transpersonal Somatic Therapist • Spiritual Life Coach • Meditation Guide
In 2016, my life—as I knew it—collapsed.
My partner passed away.
I received a working diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis.
My career was in jeopardy.
My home went into foreclosure.
These were not just external events—they were the very pillars holding up my identity. My relationship, my home, my health, my finances—these were the roles and structures I believed gave my life meaning and stability.
And because I had lived so externally referenced—deriving my sense of worth from achievement, external appearances, and being “okay” in the eyes of the world—when these outer forms disintegrated, so did my sense of self.
The ground beneath me gave way.
But in the depths of that disorientation, something unexpected emerged. From within the fractured and fragmented separate self, from the chaotic grief and unraveling trauma, I touched a deep stillness—an unbroken Presence that remained whole and untouched, that had been here at the core of my being. Deep in this vast Stillness, was the peace around which my life fell apart.
The Effulgent Self Within
What I discovered was not a strategy for fixing my life.
What I discovered was who I truly am beneath all roles, labels, and survival strategies.
As the scaffolding of my separate Self fell away, it revealed something eternal: a quiet, luminous knowing untouched by circumstance.
What many spiritual traditions call the soul, the Self, or the ground of Being. This was not about transcending pain—but about transforming through it.
Not about spiritual bypassing—but about spiritual becoming
It was, and still is, a path of embodiment, devotion, and radical honesty.
Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion.
Set your life on fire. Seek those who fan your flames.
Rumi
My Professional Background
iPEC Certified Coach
iPEC Coaching Foundation
ICF Life Coach
International Coaching Federation
Spiritual Psychology Certification
University of Santa Monica
Mindfulness-Based Clinical Psychotherapist
Naropa University
Mindfulness-Based Meditation Teacher
MMTCP by Jack Kornfield and Tara Brach
Inner MBA Conscious Business/Leadership Certification
Sounds True
Somatic Experiencing (Advanced level)
SE™ International
Hakomi Therapist in training
Hakomi Institute
My Philosophy
Healing is not about fixing what’s broken.
It’s about remembering what has never been broken.
We are each born whole—radiant with Love, Peace, and Joy. But through life, we forget. We protect. We adapt. Our identities become shaped by what we achieve, avoid, or endure.
At Core-Relate, we gently unwind those protective layers. We return to the body, the breath, the still point within. We learn to relate again—to ourselves, to others, to the sacred.
You are not broken. You are unbecoming. You are Being.